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The Breaking Up Letter
I got the new cam for my Mac and am good to go with Skype. Not sure how this all works, but would love to try Skype to Skype using the cam, with someone in the world Tuesday afternoon ET. George will be here so it should be no time at all to figure it out and dial in. If you will be available, please send me an email.
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While looking for a topic for today's blog, a friend suggested, "The Breaking Up Letter". I had never thought about that topic as it has never happened for me, but we live in an age where we write things down - email, text messages, journals, and even letters that get mailed out.
The Break Up Letter creates a catharsis in which people can express what is in their heart after trying to maintain the energy in a relationship that no longer works.
They have tried and tried again, gone to therapy, had endless phone calls and discussions and whatever else couples go through when they know the relationship has changed and they have to move on.
Now it is time to express one's feelings in a letter. Sometimes the letter is delivered, other times it is just for the person writing it. It addresses issues and helps some people clear. It also allows people to understand how they behave in a relationship and why they attract the partners they do.
I have also noticed that sometimes people express themselves 2 different ways. They can act one way in person or on the phone, then become a totally different person in email, as if the latter is a way to vent. It all comes down to issues and coping skills, something many are still exploring as we move into 2009.
If you need to write The Break Up Letter after all else has failed, go for it. You might want to start with a rough draft. You could just sit there and channel it from your heart, as if automatic writing. You might also want to consider that Mercury Retrograde is just a few days away and wait until that indecisive period passes.
When all is said and written ... please respect the fact that your partner deserves to hear your truth, express their own, in person, connecting through the eyes.
As Neil Sedaka once wrote ... Breaking Up Is Hard To Do. Neil lived near me in Brooklyn as we were growing up. As I blossomed into a teen, Neil was a catalyst, picking me as the winner of a dance contest when I was 15. He looked in my eyes, not flirting, and told everyone at the High School Dance that I have something special to do. Thanks Neil!
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Did you ever stop to think about how many relationships and broken-heart situations your soul has experienced in its journey here in different lifetimes? On one level it's sad - but when looking at it in retrospect, it can seem humorous. Lighten up! If love is to find you at the end of the program ... it will. If not ... C'est la vie!
... And so it was written.
