There are two kinds of cheating on one's partner - emotional and/or physical. People often wonder if they can be in love with two people at the same time and share experiences with them emotionally and physically. Based on the number of clients I have read I believe the answer is yes.

You can live with someone and also have an emotional best friend - the person you tell everything to who gets you. You may or may not be sleeping with a person and if you are you really should reconsider the relationship you're currently in.

It would seem that women can have an emotional friendship without physical attraction and find it rewarding. From what men tell me they can do the same but at the end of the day somewhere the emotions open up physical feelings or vice a versa.

Personally I have many married male friends that I am close still and are attracted to any of them. We enjoy each other's company because we can talk about topics - generally of the spiritual kind or about reality itself. So many relationships - so many combinations. As they say ... It's complicated.