March 9, 2010
Every decade of your life brings new and different changes and challenges, a time frame to learn from them, then the need to move on to the next. Your goals and relationships vary from decade to decade along with the changes in your lifestyle and often career. The central theme in the grids now is about the Self and the reunion of your twin souls aspects above and below, unity, the merge of consciousness.
With relationships - at some point in your life you will want, and attempt to have one, however you define it as you are programmed for experience. Time passes, your programming shifts and you reach a point where you seek change. For some it means they can no longer handle the restrictions of a relationship for many reasons:
unwillingness to compromise,
a need for personal growth to find one's soul purpose,
inability to sustain the emotional and physical energies involved in keeping the relationship going especially if you or your partner have issues,
lack of resources needed to sustain a working relationship,
the romantic connection as well as communication levels have died, as was meant
'coming out' mostly likely after years of denial and repressed anger
other factors in our rapidly changing world that are reshaping who you are
Know how you behave in a relationship, if you are capable of a short or long term relationship and if your fantasy to find The One can be realized and maintained. If you have lived alone for a long time, you may not know how much freedom you require to maintain stability in your life.
Do you want love? Do you want someone who is committed to you allowing you to be free? Do you want a great lover with no ties? Think about your needs in 2010 and then see if someone out there can match them and comes along. This is not about what you think you want or need, but about what you can handle. Know yourself.
I don't want children or a partner - I just want to have fun Guardian - March 13, 2010
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