Everything is evolving ... at its own pace.
Our programed reality is evolving in conscious awareness, at its own pace.
Everyone moves through life guided by the frequency programming of their DNA codes and those they choose to influence them at a certain point in time.
We find different personalities types usually following the DNA patterns of their bloodline, from the hyper personality, to the depressive couch potato who refuses to get help.
Discovering and healing issues increases the pace.
Don't expect anyone to move at your pace, or you will become frustrated and disappointed.