As humans live longer, best friendships can change through the years due to many factors. As with romantic relationships best friends often come and go depending on the needs of the people and where they are in life.

Clients sometimes tell me their best friend for the past 30 years no longer returns their calls and texts (ghosting). They wonder ... What did I they do wrong? It has to do with situations in that person's life. Being a best friend - like being in a relationship - takes time and effort and a desire to want to connect.