Conscious Uncoupling



The is the time of the year I blog about the end of relationships as Spring arrives and people want the freedom to find somebody new and exciting to catalyze their emotions and spiritual journey.

We have all seen the repercussions - hurt and pain - created by the split of relationships and the host of emotions created for all concerned. It is not easy to go through a divorce or any other separation.

In 2014 we are aware that people need counseling and support during a divorce. As society dictates that we do things in a "conscious way", along comes a new expression, Conscious Uncoupling, in reference to Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin's divorce.

Conscious Uncoupling makes it seem that everything they are doing is in love and light, in the best interests of all concerned, and all that metaphysical jargon. To me this is another one of those modern-day healing-your-issues expressions because as we all know that no divorce is simple no matter how metaphysical you make things sound. Luckily this couple will not have to battle over money and material possessions as most couples do. Chris will be in London while Gwyneth will live in the US raising the children though they'll be lots of together time. I think it's a simple matter of a couple who've grown apart. Each will have a new partner on the continent (content) in which they came here to live and experience. Good luck to all.

If you are going through a separation or divorce at this time, you will probably want to be civil and "conscious" about the way things unfold. If both adults are emotionally stable, things can move along amicably, but that is usually not the case. We generally find a relationship in which one of the partners triggers the worst emotionally in the other - both partners feeling that the other is emotionally unstable - never realizing that maybe they contributed to that behavior. Often one of the partners is hurt, disappointed, scorned, and has developed a pattern of abuse towards the other. The expectations each one brought to the other at the time of the union have failed, and everyone is angry. This will result in a bitter divorce where emotions may never be reconciled. Good luck with that.





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